It’s the little things

I was reading the Sunday paper, or more accurately scanning, glancing at, glimpsing the NYTimes and agonizing over the most important decision of the day: What to make for dinner? None of the smidgeon of foodstuffs in the fridge appealed. Ditto the wares on offer from the 1001 online menus whose pizza, sushi, saag paneer and Caesar salad could be had for delivery to my very front door.

Still prone on the couch, thoughts turn to the cabinets. I run my memory bank through them, picturing a whole lot of nothin’ (unless you can make an entire meal out of cumin, cornstarch and smoked paprika) until I spy , back and on the right, the cornerstone of my sudden happiness. And what I’m seeing is an unopened jar of sun dried tomatoes packed in oil. In oil!!!! Plus. I have spaghetti! And a pot and a pan! Forgive the surfeit of exclamation points, but I believe that arriving at a plan that will alter your mood from dejection to glee ought to be celebrated.

And now, dinner. And here’s the icing on the cake or, more accurately, the anchovies on the pasta because yes, I’ve unearthed a tin of the fish, so tiny and briny, which will take whatever else I cook to new heights.

Life is like that sometimes. It seems the day is irredeemable, a washout. But then, something as seemingly insignificant as a small denizen of the ocean changes, well maybe not everything, but enough to alter your mood for the better.

If anchovies or your favorite condiment don’t automatically appear in your pantry, hunt down your version of an unexpected delight. Call that friend who’s usually good for a laugh. Rewatch a favorite comedy (for the millionth time I’ll recommend Derry Girls, who should pay me royalties for their increase in viewership thanks to yours truly), eat a square of chocolate.

And here’s another small thing that gets me going. It’s “Reels,” you know, those little clips of TV shows that appear just as you’re pondering the meaning of life. Okay, that’s a total lie, you’re deciding what to have for dinner (see above.) Anyhow, since life’s meaning continues to elude me, I take solace in an old Seinfeld, the one where Kramer goes to “work” for a company that never hired him. After a few (dozen) of these, up pops Moira from Schitt’s Creek, and, as everyone knows, it matters not a jot what she says. I could listen all day to her sing-song accent of the M’clundo (just made that up) language. Some day in the future scholars will be listening to Moira’s unusual intonation in a vain attempt to ascertain its origins.

Meanwhile, it’s now bedtime and I have spent (wasted?) the entire evening enlivening or, some might say, rotting my brain. But you know what? My brain is already sort of rotted with Parkinson’s so who cares? Not me, or Moira or Jerry. Does it matter if these are real friends or “Reels” friends?

Take your fun where you find it is what I say.

And enjoy a lovely, happy ( or even just contented) New Year.

Parky Conversations, a podcast about Parkinson’s

11 thoughts on “It’s the little things

  1. Unknown's avatar Anonymous

    try making chicken soup from scratch. Just throw some chicken you might find into some water. Then empty whatever is in the fridge- I use parsnips, onions with cloves impaled in the skin, carrots, spices, sweet potatoes, and any veggies. Simmer for 3 hours adding a cup of water every hour. Strain and you will have dinner all winter. And it’s not only soul food, it’s Jewish penicillin, so maybe it helps with pd. Don’t forget spices and some bouillon, if needed. It smells great and is good for you. Sounds like a lot of work but it really isn’t. I freeze it in 2 cup increments and add rice, etc whenever I have leftovers in the refrigerator. Or you can come down here where it is warm (in the 20’s) and I’ll feed you! Xoxo, me

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  2. carcass home every year from Thanksgiving. Sadly, I have space for about a weekend’s worth of soup in my freezer, never mind enough for hte winter. Ligfht bulb! There are people in my building who never cook. I could rent their freeaer and pay them in soup. Thanks for writing and the great idea.

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    1. Unknown's avatar Anonymous

      thank you so much. Just so you know I have four friends named Karen who read the blog.if you signed your comment so I would know it was you, whichever Karen you are, so sorry but I don’t know. If you prefer to stay anonymous, that’s fine.

      again, thank you so much for your kind words.

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  3. Unknown's avatar Anonymous

    You have so “hit the nail on the head”! I feel as if I have written this myself. Reading this makes me feel as if I belong – thank you.

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